There are all kinds of orgasms from clitoral and g-spot orgasms, to cervical and anal orgasms, blended orgasms, nipple orgasms, even exercise-induced coregasms. But today we want to introduce you to a more novel and elusive type of orgasm called the energy orgasm, a sexual climax that can happen hands-free, by using your thoughts, breath and sound. This practice invites you to discover what an energy orgasm is, how to achieve one, and the steps to get you there for a mind-blowing experience that is utterly electric.
What is an energy orgasm?
An energy orgasm is a super intense, full-body, electrifying experience that leaves you tingling and trembling with pleasure and to some feels like a spiritual awakening. Also known as thinking off, mindgasms, or a cosmic orgasm, an energy orgasm is a climax that happens without physical or genital touch, using your mind and breathwork to cycle through the energy systems of the body, channeling your sexual energy or life force. For some, this type of orgasm can be transcendent, and open gateways to higher states of consciousness and spiritual awakening.
Difference between genital orgasms and energy orgasms
At our core, we are energy beings. We can tap into that erotic energy to harness it and awaken a whole new world of orgasmic potential, and erotic awakening of Kundalini energy. Physical orgasms are typically defined as tension and release events caused by physical stimulation of the genitals. In contrast, spiritual orgasms work with subtle bodies and energy centers, allowing pleasure and climax to arise from the flow of energy rather than friction alone.
Benefits of Energy Orgasms
The benefits of exploring this form of sexuality extend far beyond the bedroom. Relaxation and stress reduction are immediate gifts, as sexual energy in Tantra is recognized as a powerful force with immense potential for healing.
Expanded Consciousness occurs as practitioners develop heightened sensory awareness, deepening their spiritual connection to themselves and the universe. Energy orgasms can be an extremely spiritual experience, giving you a sense of the forces of creation rushing through you, a sense of going beyond the body and mind, reminding you who you are beyond your everyday reality.
Emotional Healing happens naturally as energy orgasms clear the body of repressed emotions, old hurts, and blocks.
Energy orgasms help pre-orgasmic persons to become genitally orgasmic and help genitally orgasmic persons to become much more multi-orgasmic.
It is safe sex, a good substitute for harmful addictions, and a wonderful skill to share with loved ones.
Awakening Kundalini Energy is central to this practice. Kundalini energy is often described as a coiled serpent of life force resting at the base of the spine. Through Tantra, Taoist sexual practices, tantric orgasm techniques, sacred sexuality, opening chakras and full body orgasms, this energy rises, creating experiences that are extremely healing, transformative, and enlightening.
Introduction to the Chakras
The chakra system forms the map for this journey. These energy centers run from the base of the tailbone to the top of the head, each governing different aspects of physical and emotional experience. Learning to move orgasmic energy through these centers is key to mastering hands-free climax.
The chakra system represents seven spinning wheels of energy that run along your spine from base to crown, each governing specific aspects of your physical and emotional wellbeing. These energy centers form the backbone of many Eastern spiritual traditions and provide a roadmap for understanding how energy moves through the body during practices like meditation, yoga, and energy work.
The Root Chakra, known as Muladhara in Sanskrit, sits at the very base of your spine near the tailbone. This foundation center connects you to the earth, governing your sense of safety, stability, and basic survival needs.
Just above, in your lower abdomen below the navel, resides the Sacral Chakra or Svadhisthana. This is the seat of your creative life force, emotional flow, and sensual energy, often described as the reservoir of your passion and pleasure.
Moving upward to your upper abdomen around the stomach area, you will find the Solar Plexus Chakra, called Manipura. This powerhouse influences your personal confidence, willpower, and how you assert yourself in the world.
At the center of your chest sits the Heart Chakra, or Anahata, bridging the lower physical chakras with the upper spiritual ones. This is the wellspring of compassion, connection, and your capacity to give and receive love.
The Throat Chakra, Vishuddha, occupies your throat area and serves as your center of authentic communication, self-expression, and the ability to speak your truth clearly.
Between your eyebrows lies the Third Eye Chakra, Ajna, the seat of intuition and inner vision. This center helps you perceive beyond the physical world, tapping into insight and wisdom.
Finally, at the very top of your head, the Crown Chakra or Sahasrara opens upward like a lotus blossom connecting you to universal consciousness, spiritual enlightenment, and the infinite energy that surrounds us all.
What does an energy orgasm feel like?
An energy orgasm is a full-body experience that transcends physical sensations, in which every cell feels activated in an euphoric energy release. Some people laugh. Some people cry. Some people move around in convulsive-like movements, as if they are possessed by joy. Energy orgasms are eclectic and people may experience various emotional outbursts during one.
This ecstatic state of arousal can be spiritually profound, awakening, magical and healing, a mysterious phenomenon that is both sexual, spiritual, and energetic. Incredible sensations arise. Some are very strong, and some are wonderfully subtle.
Generally, the more time you put into building up the energy, the more powerful the sensations. You may experience electricity shooting through your entire body, your hands and lips may tingle, and there is a sense of release and receiving at the same time. You may feel high, euphoric, and light-headed. It feels very different than a clitoral orgasm but it can occur simultaneously with clitoral stimulation. It may feel very sexual or it may not. There are many variations of energy orgasms, just as there are many variations of physical climaxes.
Ten Steps to How to Have Energy Orgasms
Use the following guide to explore ecstatic energy orgasms for yourself.
Step 1. Get comfortable
Create your sacred space. Set the mood with candlelight, incense, sensual music, and comfy pillows. Whether you choose your bedroom, or a spot on the floor, ensure you have time and privacy. Some prefer the soft support of a bed, while others like the grounding feeling of feet flat on the floor.
Step 2. Intentional Breathing
Begin with full body breathing, sometimes called ecstasy breathing based on the Fire Breath Orgasm technique. Practice full circular breathing, allowing your inhale to fill your lungs completely, then release with easy exhales. Take deep breaths that expand not just your chest but your belly and pelvis.
Step 3. Body Movement Techniques
Move your pelvis and rock your hips in a rhythmic movement, moving sexual energy and blood flow to your genitals. Let your spine undulate gently. Allow your knees to soften and your feet to root into the earth. This physical awakening prepares the body to channel energy upward.
Step 4. Visualization Practices
Use your mind’s eye to visualize the energy building in your lower chakra genital root area, moving into your belly at the sacral chakra, and continuing up through the solar chakra, heart chakra, throat chakra, third eye and crown chakra. Energy follows thought, so use your awareness to begin pulling energy from the earth and atmosphere into the perineum, the area between your tailbone and your genitals. Build fire in the sex center at the first and second chakras. Circulate the energy back and forth. When this area is well lit, go up to the belly area and start circulating from the root to the belly, back and forth between the second and third chakras, until the fire burns stronger.
Step 5. Pelvic Clenches
Squeeze and release your pelvic floor muscles to further build erotic energy. These muscles act as a pump to move energy up the spine. If your PC muscles are out of shape or feel crampy, do not squeeze them so hard, or squeeze them every three or four breaths instead of every breath.
Step 6. Sound Incorporation
Begin to include sounds and moaning as the energy reaches your throat chakra. Let sound vibrate through your mouth and nose, releasing blocks and amplifying the flow. This vocal expression helps move energy upward and prevents it from getting stuck.
Step 7. Touch Yourself
Though this is a hands-free technique, you may use your hands to guide the sexual energy up the body, touching the centers where you are concentrating on sending and circulating the energy. A partner may also assist in this energy work, though solo practice is equally powerful for all genders.
Step 8. Building and Focusing Energy
Continue to build and focus your erotic energy, imagining it traveling up your energy centers from root to crown, in pulsing waves of erotic ecstasy. Continue to use breath, sound, voice, and movement to channel the energy and erotic arousal. Feel wave after wave of sensation building without rushing toward immediate climax.
Step 9. Releasing and Surrendering
Finally, allow the sexual energy of orgasm to crescendo and explode outward and upward through the crown chakra for ecstatic union with the cosmos. Energy orgasms can last minutes and even longer. At a certain point it may feel like the energy is shooting out the top of your head, like water out of a hose. Next you may experience full-body orgasm. Go with it. Your breathing patterns will change. You may scream, you may melt, you may laugh hysterically, you may feel your back arch and your hands may clench. With practice you can learn to ride the waves and keep the orgasms going for a very long time, whether during day or night.
Step 10. Grounding and Integration
Bask in the afterglow of your orgasm and feel the earth beneath you as you integrate your energy and ground yourself. Return your awareness to your feet flat on the floor or bed. Drink some tea, water or eat light food to help anchor your consciousness back into your physical form.
Common Questions and Concerns
Be patient with your practice. At first you may not experience the orgasm part of this process. Some get it on their first try and for some it can take years. Keep practicing. Energy levels will most likely rise and fall, so keep pumping your kegels. Know that it is possible. Learn more about the chakras and kundalini tantra to help you achieve energy orgasms. This technique is based on the Fire Breath Orgasm and was practiced in ancient times by Tantric and Taoist practitioners.
The Role of Diet and Lifestyle in Energy Orgasms
Foods that are fresh, whole, plant-based and nutrient-dense help fuel your inner fire and erotic energy. Proper hydration supports the electrical conductivity needed for energy flow. Avoid heavy meals right before practice as they can dull the sensitivity needed for this subtle work.
Potential for Multiple Energy Orgasms: Microcosmic Orbit
One of the most unique aspects of energy orgasms is that you can experience multiple energy orgasms at one time. These types of energy orgasms can go on in rapid succession and continuous waves of ecstasy, for several minutes, as you continue to build energy and release it.
The Microcosmic Orbit is a Taoist term describing the full orbiting of energy along the front and back of the torso. This meditation aims to facilitate and reinforce the flow of Qi in the Functional Channel, also known as the Conception Channel at the front, and the Governor Channel at the back along the spine. The ultimate goal of the Microcosmic Orbit meditation practice is to achieve a state where energy flows steadily and uninterruptedly throughout the body. This involves training the front and back channels to widen and deepen, eventually integrating all channels into one unified pathway. This unimpeded energy flow promotes perfect health and vitality.
The Connection Between Sexual Energy and Manifestation
Sex magic and manifesting with sexual energy represent advanced applications of these practices. By raising intense energy and directing it toward specific intentions at the moment of climax, practitioners believe they can influence reality itself. This harnessing of power demonstrates the absolute treasure troves of potential stored within human sexuality.
Conclusion: Empowerment Through Energy Orgasms
While the vast majority of people remain unaware of these possibilities, the surface for healing and transformation through energy orgasms is available to anyone willing to explore. For the majority of people seeking deeper connection and pleasure, this practice offers a path beyond separation and past traumas into a space of pure presence and acceptance. Embrace your innate capacity for ecstasy, and discover who you truly are beyond the limitations of ordinary reality.
Additional Resources and Expert Advice
For those wishing to deepen their study, absolute treasure troves of wisdom exist in the works of Barbara Carrellas, author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century. Annie Sprinkle offers pioneering teachings on Energy Orgasms. Mantak Chia, a celebrated Taoist teacher, is best known for his books The Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Multi-orgasmic Woman, Healing Love through Tao, and The Multi-orgasmic Couple.
References:
- energetic orgasm. healthline.com
- mental orgasms. verywellmind.com
- energy orgasm practice. guided meditation. barbaracarrellas.com
